If you are in an argument or disagreement, take a moment to think about what you are going to say. For example, professionals do not show an unprofessional appearance during meetings if there is a conflict of interest between associates. Parents do not show rage in front of their children if a situation has irritated them because they would like their children to be civilized. There are a number of consequences for showing hostility towards others.
Legal action may be enforced upon you if you attack a co-worker verbally, physically, or emotionally. Why are most of our arguments centered around personal attacks on the other person? Our egos take control of the whole situation then we allow ourselves to fall victim to naïve behaviors. Controlling your ego
is an anger management key that is vital to constructive arguments.
Sunday, February 25, 2007
Practice Humility
Posted by dzul89 at 5:11 PM 0 comments
Watch Your Mouth
Our mothers warned us of this simple technique at a very young age, but we forget these three words in the midst of an agreement. Quick, degrading comments of your colleague will not give you the upper hand in the disagreement – it will demolish your reputation. If you have not noticed, our mouths can get us in plenty of trouble in a matter of seconds. Anger management is a key to handling a dispute without creating an unpleasantness about your behavior. Notice the difference in co-worker behavior once you decide to watch your tempter in public places as well as in private socials.
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